Thursday, March 21, 2013

Saturday, February 16, 23, 2013

married

Why people get married? There were many interesting answers, for examples: source of happiness, tired of waiting, they want a big wedding, to avoiding loneliness, and because it is a way of improving life getting away from negative environment. For me, the reason that we need to get married, is that getting married and create a family is the plan of God, and it is part of development.  In the text book, it talks about the patterns of family, like the size of family is getting smaller, lower birth rate, more people living alone, and increasing in the number of premarital sex among teens. I was really surprise this patterns, it telling  us that people in the would should do some avoid these thing, especially the premarital sex among teens, it is serious in the western countries.

Abuse problem in family (physical/mental)
Physical abuse is often the most easily recognized form of abuse. Physical abuse can be any kind of hitting, shaking, burning, pinching, biting, choking, throwing, beating, and other actions that cause physical injury, leave marks, or cause pain.
Emotional abuse can be the most difficult to identify because there are usually no outward signs of the abuse. Emotional abuse happens when yelling and anger go too far or when parents constantly criticize, threaten, or dismiss kids or teens until their self-esteem and feelings of self-worth are damaged. Emotional abuse can hurt and cause damage just as physical abuse does.
The effects of being abuse: Physical consequences, such as damage to a child's growing brain, can have psychological implications such as cognitive delays or emotional difficulties. Psychological problems often manifest as high-risk behaviors. Depression and anxiety, for example, may make a person more likely to smoke, abuse alcohol or illicit drugs, or overeat. High-risk behaviors, in turn, can lead to long-term physical health problems such as sexually transmitted diseases, cancer, and obesity.
 

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